| Location | Carshalton |
| Age | 72 years |
| Date of Birth | 3/1933 |
| Date of Death | 11/2005 |
| Visitors | 188 since 06/01/2008 |
| Creator |
*Margaret Rose Bailey
*21-03-33 - 10-11-2005
*My nan passed away after years off illness, She had a hard battle with many different illnesses, but she was still able to be a Wonderful nan to many but mainly me and my 4 sisters as we lived closest to her we were so close to our nan. It was hard when the hospital called my mum considering my mum had only just left there to come home to see us, then she raced back but unfortunatly my nan had gone before she got there in a way i think my nan done that to save even more pain on my mum, when my mum come home she told me and my older sister as we were up, waiting for the new we dreaded as when my mum come in i knew instantly the devestation on my mums face was all i could see, My older sister jo and myself went to the hospital to say our final goodbyes to our much loved nan, that was the hardest thing of all knowing that would b the last time i ever saw her, it jus looked like she was sleeping peacefully! Thats when it hit me in the morning we would have to break the new to my 3 younger sisters who at the time were 10, 6 and 2 knowing Halley (the two year old) would not quite understand where her nan was my nan called Halley her "sunshine" We told sunshine nanny was with the angels now she will watch over all the time we told her, We also told her she was flying with the birds in the sky.
Next was to come was the funeral (22nd nov 2005) which was one of the most hardest days in my life it was also one day before my 16th birthday so much for sweet 16! but i understood my nan was in a lot of pain and she was better of in heaven where she would be my guardian angel!!
Jo and myself wrote a lovely poem for my nan which we read out during the service battling the tears but we knew she would b proud.
Days to come after i realised i just couldnt go on with this anymore i sunk into deep depression and thought i couldnt go on with life no more mum realised this and took me to doctors and i was prescirbed anti-depressiants which i thought how can tablet help me with this, they also sent me to a special doctor who gave me counselling every week which eventually this did help and i was weened of the tablets, then one day i woke up and thought to myslef would nan want to see you like this seriously get a grip of your self i also had low self esteem as i had put on alot of weight so then i thought its time to realise i had to get on with life and make my nan proud so i enrolled in college to do what i have always wanted to do hairdressing, it was a two year course which i managed to complete in 9 months knowing my nan would be proud of me was a comfort (i no it seems im babling on about my self but this is how i saw it)
Now im a qualified hairdresser but have given this up and im a croupier and loving life i no my nan is here with me ive been to see a medium and i know it was my nan there the things she said i know it was all her!
Halley still remembers my nan she goes on about her all the time which we all wanted her to do!
R.I.P Nan Love you 4eva and always
Love you
Steph x x x
Heyy Nan!!
Well Not Alot Has Changed Down Here Just Same Shit Different Day Rele As Im Sure You Can See!!
Other Then That All Is Good Nan!!
Hope Your Up There Raving It Up Lol!! And When Im Coming Meet Me At The Gates Cos Dont wana Come In On My Own :)!!
Anyways Nan Time For Bed Going Shopping 2morro
Love Ya 4eva And Always
Steph x x x
Nan Im Missing You Like Mad!!!
Heyy Nan, Well I Know I Always Say This But Im Missing You Mad I Always Thought It Would Get That Little Bit Easier But It Aint Nan 2 And Half Years But It Only Feels Like Yesterday I Was With You In The Hospital!! I Still Cant Forgive Myself For Not Seeing That Day!! Nan I Will Soon Be UP There With You Promise Just Make Sure Your At The Gates Waiting 4 Me With Grandad Cos I Never Got TO Met Him!!
Anyways We've Had More Trouble With Lauren, Mums In pieces She Jus Doesn't Care Nan Wish You Were Hear 2 Sort Her Out!! Jo And Dans Lil One Is Due Next Month!! Sunshine Is Fine Jus Gettin Too Old Too Quick!! Charleys All Good Too!! And Well Me Im Jus Working Hard Now Not Partying As Much :) Cos Ive Realised Theres More To Life!! Fort I'd Found A Nice Bloke But They All Just Turn Out The Same Dont They!!
Anyways Nan Nothing Can Explain How Much I Miss You But I Know Your Up There Looking Down On Us And Your Not In Any More Pain No More!!!
Love You Nan For Ever And ALWAYS
All My Love
Stephaine x x x x
thank you Steph xxxxxxx
Thank you Steph for the lovely tribute your nan seemed such a lovely lady and im sure she'd be so proud of you all we hope that these words help and give you some comfort as they have us xxxxxxx
Think of me and know I am with you,
Think of me and smile.
Think of me and know that our parting
Is only for a while.
On the days that you feel so desperate
To see my smiling face,
Just believe in your heart I am with you
And that I'm in a beautiful place.
So think of me and remember,
All the memories in your heart,
And believe and know that this is true,
We are never really apart.
In Sympathy
So sorry for your loss. My nan passed away last year and it feels like my whole world has been taken away. My thoughts are with you. God bless. I hope you find this poem of comfort, as I have done. x
What is Dying?
A ship sails and I stand watching till she fades on the horizon and someone at my side says 'She is gone'.
Gone where? Gone from my sight, that is all. She is just as large now as when I last saw her. Her diminished size and total loss from my sight is in me, not in her.
And just at the moment when someone at my side says she is gone there are others who are watching her coming over their horizon and other voices take up a glad shout 'There she comes!'
That is what dying is. An horizon and just the limit of our sight.
Lift us up, Oh Lord, that we may see further.
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